The Truman Show is an American comedy psychological fiction film which was released in 1998. The film is about a man who has had his whole life documented, beginning from when he was still a fetus all the way until his adulthood, his whole life has been planned and filmed, everyone around him is an actor but he is completely oblivious that he is being watched every second of every day. Until one day he starts to figure something out and that there is something wrong.
I watched this film when I was about 13 or 14, and connected with it a lot and ever since then, I have used this as an example to explain my feelings to people, the idea of constantly being watched, whether that be by a person, a camera, a spirit, or anything.
I rewatched the film to see if I connected with it again after watching it as an older person, and I definitely connected with the idea of being watched and that everything around me is being planned. I struggle to understand that good things could happen to me, so when they do I find them hard to believe, and I tend to question whether they are happening for a reason and they are just there to control me in some way. An example of this is my boyfriend. I have been with Jacob for almost 6 years, and he has been nothing but amazing to me in my life and he has helped my so many hard times, yet I still have days where I do not believe that I could be in such a healthy relationship, I often question whether he could be some sort of German spy or similar and that he or someone is planning something against me.
I looked up this idea and to see if anyone else felt similar and I found this on Quora. Even though I know deep down that I am loved by my family and my boyfriend, I relate so deeply to this idea that everyone is just playing with my head and watching my every move.